My Surreal Life

My Musings, My Thoughts & My Ponderings

An Irrational Sense of Entitlement

I had a very interesting discussion with TwitterStepMoms today about a Mothers sense of “entitlement”, and the difference between those who are Moms without divorce/relationship breakdown and those who go … Continue reading

March 24, 2013 · 2 Comments

Community Spirit

Not so long ago I returned to Twitter, after an active spell in 2008/2009 and a short break, I returned not really having any interest in anything. There are very … Continue reading

March 10, 2013 · Leave a comment

To Build or Not to Build a Relationship with BioMom

Possibly one of the hardest decisions to make and one which maybe totally out out of your control…. Do you have a relationship with BioMom? Do you want a relationship … Continue reading

January 29, 2013 · Leave a comment

Why I Need To Recover – My Story

I’ve often tried to “recover”, although I’ve still to really understand what it really means. Does it mean never engaging in destructive behaviour again? Does it mean never having another … Continue reading

January 9, 2013 · Leave a comment

Losing A Little Part Of Myself

There appears to be an unwritten part of pregnancy that people don’t discuss and to be honest, its the worst side effect I’ve experienced. I spoke about it yesterday briefly … Continue reading

December 26, 2012 · Leave a comment

Conflicting Emotions

I try not to get too involved in mass hysteria that is the standard emotthional process of pregnancy, step-parenting and marriage because each is different. Each person is different and … Continue reading

December 25, 2012 · Leave a comment

Siblings ‘vs’ Half-Siblings

As soon as I started my current relationship and knew that kids at some point were to form part of my future I started to question a lot of my … Continue reading

December 11, 2012 · 2 Comments

Future Generations & Their Religious Quest

I’ve has this conversation with my mom several times recently and we have come to the same conclusion, irrespective of our varing beliefs! The youth of today do not not … Continue reading

December 6, 2012 · Leave a comment

My Love Of Sylvia Plath

I have an absolute obsession with Sylvia Plath, I love her, I love her writing and her poetry. Her life story is so inspiring (yes, i know she committed suicide) but I could … Continue reading

December 1, 2012 · 1 Comment

Varying Definitions of Motherhood

Who deserves to be a mom? Does everyone? Or should it be left to those who can truly raise a child regardless of their biological connection to said child? As … Continue reading

November 30, 2012 · Leave a comment

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